To make things short: ex-Idiot is a dick. We have fought through court regarding access and maintenance.
There is an order in place that stipulates he must pay half of the children's educational costs. We have already been back once because he accused me of overspending ( I did all my shopping for generics in Aldi fss). At the time he gave me E200 to cover uniforms, bags, school fees etc. He felt that I was overspending if I spent over E400: this is to return 3 kids with fees of E150.
I took the Idiot to court and won.
Now Im in a situation where I have to find E64 for school trips by Tuesday. I dont have it. I have sent him the relevant documents that detail cost and the date to be paid by.
I wont let him take the kids outside of the court order for an event he wants them at. I think this is petty revenge.
Ive blocked him because he wont stop calling me names, and yelling 'fuck off' to me on the phone with DC.
Would I be unreasonable by simply filing the paperwork for court when Tuesday passes and not giving him any notice? I'm fed up to my back teeth. I have to drag him through court to get anything. The judge is probably as sick of me as I am being in his courtroom.
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BananasAreTheSourceOfEvil · 27/05/2018 20:50
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