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NC is this crazy?

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TLC1975 · 27/05/2018 17:56

Hi so I parted ways with someone I loved very much in March. I have been NC since. Hard but the right thing to do. Only problem is that some days my mind is playing tricks on me. It still is a struggle most days. It almost feels like I need to contact him to hear that nothing has changed and for that final hurt to push me into moving on. Is that crazy?? Any advice greatly appreciated x

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Thingsdogetbetter · 27/05/2018 18:12

It's crazy! It's the 'addicted' part of you brain wanting a fix. In reality you'll either get sucked back in or you set your healing back to the beginning. It's only been a matter of weeks, you can't expect to be healed yet. Keeping pushing through. It will happen eventually.

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SherbetSorbet · 28/05/2018 02:46

Reading between the lines, it sounds like you might have given him an ultimatum and you want to contact him to see if he has changed his mind. If that is the case then no, I don't think you should contact him, if he had changed his mind, you would know.

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NameChangedForThisQ · 28/05/2018 02:57

Just keep reminding yourself of all the shit he did or said and soon you'll be so angry that calling him is the last thing you'll want to do. You're well shot.

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TLC1975 · 28/05/2018 06:55

Thank you, great advice in MN. It helped xx

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