Don't know where to start. Have been with my husband for 10 years, married for 3... we've had ups and downs in the past but nothing serious recently.
This pregnancy was planned. Both wanted the baby. I've suffered with terrible nausea and due to that haven't been my usual self. Over the past few weeks he has become distant. He said it was because I wouldn't let him do what he wanted with work... saying wanted a new job working away to earn more for our family.
Then a couple of days ago he said it is acrually our relationship and he's felt we don't have anything in common and says he's felt this for a few years. I couldn't believe it. I have said about counselling and he said he's already tried all he can...
I never wanted a baby on my own, but I guess who does. I'm petrified now of what to do. If I go through with this and our marriage falls apart I'll be bringing a child up alone. I've got friends and family but I just don't know if that's right.
I've considered a termination but the thought makes me so sick. I'm getting help re my choices and he's agreed to a counselling session but he says he doesn't think there is any hope for our relationship.
He doesn't think I should have the baby. But has said he will support me if I do.
Has anyone had any similar situations.
How the hell do you make the choice.
Please no anti termination comments. I fully understand that it's not a pleasant process.
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Crisis! Marriage breakdown at 18 weeks pregnant
Decisions1 · 24/05/2018 00:26
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