My sister is unbelievably troubled. She's not living at home. She is in a different county. The family are tormented from her.
Her anger is as fresh today as it was three/four years ago.
She takes offence easily at situations where no offence or harm was meant. I could spend all day writing here about her and what she has done to not only me but also the family. She wants nothing to do with the family but she won't let us go. I received the majority of the abuse and harassment from her into my old phone. My mother and one /two of three brothers received less.
In recent times she went down the road of contacting my boyfriend and also my employer. My younger brother was called something unbelievably horrific which was all lies and just pure trouble making from her.
She is using message apps to abuse us now. Like, some of the messages she has sent to my brother made it look like there was a mob of people out to get him. She has sent family messages making it appearing as if it came from my old phone number. The other night my mother got 'I love cock' into her phone and looked as if it came from my old number.
This week gone by, she has started contacting my boyfriends family to warn them about how nasty I am.
I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do. Ignoring her, changed my number.
The police were no good. I'm at breaking point now. There is so much other stress in my life aside from her and I'm beginning to crack.
A friend of mine who works in the health care, asked me about the family and the sister. I said something which alarmed her. Some weeks ago, a situation arose where the family had to make contact with her to notify her of something very serious. My sister managed to turn things right around onto herself. My friend said to look up group but personality disorders and I did. Boderline personality disorder fits her to a T.
Is there any way of putting an end to this? Does their back lash and poison ever end?
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Does anyone have experience of a family member with boderline personality disorder?
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SMJYellow · 23/05/2018 15:46
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