We see each other mostly when we are free but he told me Last week tinder was deleted he was focusing on us that lasted for about a week and then he’s went ‘offish’ again. When I asked him he said he wasn’t being off but an example last mon tues wed phone calls and texts....then fri sat and sun he replied to my texts but made no attempt to ask me anything to keep a convo going. Has talked about possibly bringing me to a wedding in the summer and about booking tickets for a concert in October so I feel conflicted in what he’s feeling
if he messages lots when he’s free and then goes quiet on Work days than it could be explained. It sounds like he’s not really sure what he wants and that’s really frustrating. Time to cut losses I think!
You see it's in his interest to be nice to you before spending a few days having sex...after he's got what he wants his interest will wane until he decided he wants sex again. That's why you're seeing the spikes and dips in attention and contact.
I recently blocked a guy from Tinder who was exactly this. They just use you. It’s SO common, but I feel a fool, I had no idea.
Google the traits of an emotionally unavailable man.
You are feeding his ego every time you go back. I’ve been no contact a month and he hasn’t even chased me, yet words sometimes he’d tell me I was the best thing that had ever happened to him blah blah blah. I wasted 5 months of my life. He’d back track too. Don’t waste your time on these losers x