I split up with my husband 18 months ago and it has been a rollercoaster to say the least. I left him after 14 years together and initially I was convinced it was the right thing to do.
We are in contact and the other day he asked to talk. He was upset and laid all his cards on the table, he wants me back and has realised how being apart has made him realise I’m the one for him etc
It was really heartfelt and I got upset too and said I’d have to go away and think about things. In our time apart, he has dated and slept with a couple of other people although never settled as such. In the last couple of weeks we have been out for a meal and spent a lot of time together. I want to believe the things he says but something doesn’t sit right.
I contacted a friend if his who has been out with him often since we’ve been apart to explain I was confused about trying again and he said “ you are lovely and you deserve better” I didn’t ask him to elaborate because I felt he was sort of warning me off.
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Summerdaysarebest · 20/05/2018 21:32
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