i've been with my husband for 15 years, first real relationship and three children. i do love him but i'm really not sure if im just used to him? he helps around the house and is a good dad, but we just don't talk to eachother.
we don't find same things funny, we don't watch tv programes, if i talk about my friends he says he doesn't care as they're all morons if i mention work he tells me to stop because he doesn't want to hear about it, if i mention trivial shit like the royal wedding for example he says it doesn't interest him. i asked him what we could talk about but he just really isn't interested.
i mentioned our finances and wanted to discuss how we could bulk up our savings and what we could etc he just looked at me and said jokingly we'll sell the kids or play the lotto! he was laughing and i just sat there.. he detours every conversation i try to have and even though i love him i just think i want more. i want flowers every now and again, i want him to book a hotel room and take me away for a night, i want some fun and laughter and a friend to talk to not just some random guy in my house that helps clean up. is that normal? he seems to be under the impression that him working, being a good dad and tidying make him some super god but fuck ..theres just no passion? no fun! i keep thinking i don't want to spend my life like this i want so much more!
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