I snooped and found something I wish I hadn’t!

Dav029 · 2018-04-28 08:47:29

I found my husband’s old phone in the drawer yesterday and decided to switch it on. I logged on to his Instagram account and saw that in his messages he’d messaged a girl he’d bumped into on a night out. The night out happened a few days after we’d had a miscarriage and I was away stayin with friends. The messages were flirty and my husband asked for her number so they could contact each other via text/whatsapp. For me, this is totally unacceptable and is basically cheating. But I can’t confront him about it because he’ll know I snooped. Advice?!

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