I met Friend B through Friend A. I've known Friend A for quite a long time and used to be very close although more recently we haven't been quite as close although i'd say we were still friends. Friends A and B don't live locally but I have gone to visit them on several occasions over the past 3 years.
I went to stay with Friend B and ended up falling out. I was accused of doing something I hadn't done and Friend B ended up shouting at me in quite an abusive way. I left her house decided not to continue being friends and have had no further contact apart from a few text messages where I was clear that the friendship was no more. B didn't apologise in any way just tried to blame me for everything so I decided I didn't want to be friends.
Friend A was aware of the fall out and offered me a place to stay at hers when I left Friend B's house. I told Friend A what had happened but knowing she was friends with B I didn't involve her too much.
After I'd returned home I started to get strange messages from A saying to leave B alone despite the fact that B was sending me messages herself, not particularly nice ones. I said to A can you tell her to leave ME alone and A then didn't want to speak further so I thought I'd leave it a while to blow over.
A couple of months later and A is not speaking to me, or responding to any messages. I literally have no idea why! I can only assume that B has told her some shit that isn't true to make A turn against me. I just think it's strange that A can turn her back on a longstanding friendship without any sort of explanation or wanting to put whatever B has said to me to see my side.
I know no one has a right to anyone's friendship and it all feels pretty dysfunctional so I'm better off out but I just feel like I need closure and I'm not going to get it.
Being ignored like this when I don't know why is terribly frustrating and I would never turn my back on someone like this without some sort of explanation. I think B must have told A some whoppers, what do you think?
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LittleMissedTheSunshine · 24/04/2018 18:17
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