Hi, will try and keep this short...so myself and my fiance (of 10 months) have been together for 4 and a half years. We moved intogether after 6 months due to family issues on his side and a few months after he moved in with me i found out he was using online dating sites. I confronted him, we broke up but resolved it when he apologised, said it was a bad habit from when he was younger amd single and that he didnt realise it was so bad, he swore he would never do it again. It took time but we became strong again. I do have to point out that even tho he is 33 he is quite immature in his mind and also has a mild learning dissability. Roll on to this week, i have found out that he is back on the dating sites, ffs!! Again he has apologised, said he was bored and sorry amd would never do it again. Obvs i have given him back the ring but cant make it public yet as 1 of his family members is going through intense treatment for the next few weeks and this news would just devastate them. We have decided to live in house together and just have minimal contact untill we can tell his family. He swears he loves me and is sorry and hates himself and this has been a huge wake up call for him. Just to add, we were saving to buy a house, trying for a baby amd had amazing goals and dreams for our future that we both shared, he really seemed to want this. So my query is, should i forgive him again and try sort this out ? Although he is not trying to fix this and win me back, i do believe him that he is feeling awful and wishes this didnt happen. He says he is just trying to get through each day and seems pointless to try and fix this as he feels i will tell him to f### off and he has hurt me so much. Im very confused and would appreciate any advice....
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