My DP was with his ex wife for 3 years in total when they got divorced. It was a long distance relationship and they married after a year of meeting. I have been with him now for 18 months.
I am just looking some perspective on the fact that when clearing his flat I found poems he had written for her declaring his love. I also know that he sent her flowers regularly. I am annoyed as he is not like this at all with me. He sent me 2 bunches of flowers during the first 3 months of our relationship and 1 on valentine's day this year. On our first valentine's together in 2017 I received absolutely nothing.
I have spoken to him about this and he says that she put him under pressure to be like this due to the distance and that he loves me more than he's ever loved anyone. AIBU to be upset by this?
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He wrote poems/sent flowers etc to his ex but nothing to me. Opinions please...
Beegee02 · 21/04/2018 16:54
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