Second baby has killed my marriage. My DH has turned selfish and angry. I'm angry and resentful. Neither of us get any time to ourselves - either separately or apart. I don't have it in me to dedicate enough to my boys. Ds1 is having a few minor health and development issues. Ds2 is just hard hard work - won't be put down, ever. I'm tired, lost, resentful and confused. DH even complains if I ask him to get up at 6.30 so I can have half an hour to get showered and ready for the day. On the other hand, he's shattered because he's busy making the house safe for the boys and does cook dinner most days.
How do we find what we had? I just think if we can find that connection again then we can go a long way towards fixing things.
And my boys? I don't even begin to know how to stop failing them. I just don't want to do any of this any more.
Ps - I know this isn't pnd
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Prusik · 19/04/2018 09:50
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