So my boyfriend has a child with his ex partner, they split up about 3 years ago now.
To give a bit of background about this girl she contacted my family last year just to try and tell them what a bad boyfriend my partner was so they'd hate him and we'd split. She has also sent me nasty messages and slates the way I look everytime she needs to speak to him. Baring in mind I have always been the bigger person and not ever been nasty to her, I've always just let it go and not replied.
She now has me blocked on everything but continues to contact him requesting money every now and again for him to be able to take his son the the park for one hour, she's one of those typical use your kids as a weapon for money types of mum's. She also used to ring his phone without lie.. about 160 times a day, we used to be watching a film and his phone wouldn't even leave the call screen because it was her ringing over and over again just to see where he was.
I'm unsure what to do by this point, my boyfriend has tried to make it clear to her that he only wants to hear from her if it's about the child but she just doesn't get it.
Any ideas please? I'm fully aware they will always be in contact because of the child but I cannot take the way she won't leave him alone..
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Boyfriends ex and mother of child won't leave us alone?
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Newtegan · 20/03/2018 21:56
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