So my partner and I have been together 2 years. He suffers from social anxiety and is shy when it comes to talking to others. He doesn't have a great work ethic and hasn't held down a stable job ever. He is 20 and so am I.
So a few days ago I broke up with him because of this. We have a 5.5 month old daughter. We live with my dad, sister, sisters partner and child. All his family live in Ireland so he has no where to go so is staying on the sofa. We don't know how to act with each other. We are acting like best friends and everything is fine but deep down it's not. We both still want our relationship to work. He said he is going to do everything he can to win me back as he loves me so much. I love him too and want it to work but need to see him step up. I need to see him out working and getting help for his anxiety. He has had 2 interviews and has another one next week and he has been to the gp about his anxiety.
I don't know what to do though! We are acting fine and I feel deep down that that is wrong as we are broken up right now. We aren't cuddling or kissing or anything but just acting as friends. I don't really know why I'm posting this but I just feel so lost right now and would love someone to just talk to about It all.
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Awkward and so hard
Noodlee · 19/03/2018 18:06
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