I would be grateful for anyone's advice on this as I can't decide whether I'm justified being hurt or should just let it go. When our daughter was born in 2014, we asked two close friends to be her godparents - the husband of this couple has been one of my DH's very very good friends for close to 10 years. They were groomsmen at each other's weddings and over time we got to know each other all together and would have spent a lot of time together as a four. However I'm really regretting the decision now. Since she was born, they've seen her 3 times (we only live an hour's drive from each other). Her most recent birthday and Christmas went by without even a text of acknowledgement or a card, and they've cancelled the last couple of visits I've arranged without any offering any other day - I've offered to drive to them too, but it's always really hard to pin them down and arrangements stay so vague that the weekend comes and goes without it happening. I'm getting a bit embarrassed to keep on trying and think maybe we expected too much- but having said that, all I want is the odd "how's she doing?" text or for them to come see us even an odd weekend. Not just because Id like her to have a relationship with her godparents but because they're our friends and we've so much history together. It's not about presents or grand gestures just taking a bit of an interest as you'd hope any good friends would. What would you do? Im kind of at the point of accepting the friendship may have run it's course regardless...I have tried to broach the subject once and say we missed them and would love for DD to get to know them more but it didn't change anything! Thanks in advance x
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