I split with my ex just over a year ago whilst pregnant. It was messy but not in the usual sense. We loved each other, but I had a mental health crisis and he couldn't cope. We are now in a good place as co-parenters and friends.
I've recently been speaking to an earlier ex who has been through his own issues and has come out the other side and is doing well. Our relationship was turbulent but passionate. We went through a lot together. We were very young and stupid but I think we have both changed a hell of a lot since then and have decided to meet up in person.
The issue is that my anxiety is kicking in and somehow I feel like I am betraying my kids by showing an interest in someone other than their dad. I also feel like I am betraying him because I still feel that our relationship breakdown was my fault and if I could just have kept my head together it wouldn't have happened.
Has anyone been through similar?
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Maccapacca88 · 18/03/2018 10:10
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