I have been divorced from my first husband for 15 years and we have 2 children together, aged 20 and 18. I have subsequently married again and have a daughter with him and she is 12 years old.
My husband has always been jealous and insecure of my first husband and he convinced me to have no contact with him apart from texting to make arrangements for our 2 children. I stupidly agreed to this.
My dilemma now is that my eldest daughter is graduating in July this year and obviously wants me and her dad to attend and she has said that she would like us to go on for a meal afterwards to celebrate her graduation, along with a few other family members.
I have told my husband about this and he has hit the roof and said that if I go to the meal with my ex-husband that he will divorce me. He is adamant that this is what he will do. There has been a history of him 'bribing' me to do things his way throughout the relationship and I usually give in but I feel that this is the right thing to do for my daughter.
I would appreciate other people's opinions - am I being unreasonable or am I justified in agreeing to go for my daughter's sake.
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Daughters Graduation - Meal with Ex-Husband?
Chloesmum1971 · 15/03/2018 13:15
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