I've been seeing a new guy for the past 6 months whom I met on Tinder. My XH cheated on me which has left me with massive trust issues,which I didn't realise I had until in this new relationship.
New guy has assured me he's no longer looking for anyone on Tinder. I must confess I check his Tinder profile every now and then. When he went back to his home town at Christmas his mileage changed so I knew he had logged onto the app. I didn't make a fuss, I just asked him about it. He said he'd been showing Tinder to a friend. He assured me he wanted to be exclusive. At that point even if he had been meeting other people it wouldn't have been a problem I'd have just continued on a casual basis.
When I was bored last night I just flicked onto his Tinder profile and his description had changed. I asked him about it, he got very defensive and said it had always been like that. But In fact just two days before I'd told a friend about him and actually shown her his tinder profile which still had his original wording.
He has made me feel like I'm going mad and am now doubting what I know I've seen. So my question is could Tinder have accidentally reverted back to an old profile that he once had, or has he changed it himself?
If he wanted to be casual I wouldn't have minded but I can't deal with lies and being made to feel like I'm going crazy. I had enough of that in my marriage.
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brittanyfairies · 24/02/2018 09:10
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