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Facebook messenger!!!

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Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:13:32

Evening!!

I am feeling so angry right now!!

Cut a long story short, my boyfriend was on my laptop earlier and it crashed and wouldn't reload so he just left it.... I've just loaded it back up and his Facebook comes up, still logged on!

Anyway, he's on his phone right now at the other end of the sofa, & I'm on my laptop... I can see that he's just 'waved' at 5 women, 3 of which have replied and he's having conversations with!! Every time he sends a message, he deletes it so the convo disappears. But little does he know, I'm watching them pop up and reading every word.

I know I shouldn't be invading his privacy & I have never done this before but bloody hell...

What an absolute C**t. Or am I over reacting?

piefacedClique Thu 22-Feb-18 23:18:30

Awks! What types of things is he messaging about!

Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:26:55

Could say that!!

Oh general chit chat - how have you been etc all with a hint of flirt!

What do I do??

Newerversion Thu 22-Feb-18 23:29:47

I think you should get on Facebook and message him "Hi, just thought I would join in the messaging fun! ". Then watch his face.

Mrstobe90 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:30:34

Wait a while to see if the messages become more sexual and if they do, tell him you can see everything.
Oh and also ltb! He's blatantly up to something

Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:30:46

One appears to have a wrist injury...
'If you need anything you know where I am'
' I don't want to bother you'
'You're never a bother'
'I feel like I am'

Seems like they have chatted before....

Finola1step Thu 22-Feb-18 23:32:06

Bide your time.

Lalalaleah Thu 22-Feb-18 23:32:27

Watch and screen shot

boatyardblues Thu 22-Feb-18 23:32:49

Screenshot, screenshot, screenshot. That way you can serve your revenge hot, cold or whatever way you fancy.

ChickenMom Thu 22-Feb-18 23:32:58

Wow...he’s got a bloody cheek. Sat right next to you and online with other women. Rude.

Newerversion Thu 22-Feb-18 23:33:08

The fact he is deleting the messages says quite a lot.

boatyardblues Thu 22-Feb-18 23:33:20

Fistbumps lala. You got there quicker.

AthenasOwl Thu 22-Feb-18 23:33:48

Ugh this is horrible! I think you should watch and wait too.

SandAndSea Thu 22-Feb-18 23:33:54

Keep watching. I would bide my time.

How long have you been together?

Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:34:09

Just screen shorted a couple but as he is deleting them so quickly it's hard!!

I'm gonna bide my time though, not going to say anything just yet.

I just said 'why do men wave at women on Facebook, so bloody creepy' he said 'do you think?' Then waved at another one!!!

What a joker.

mumgointhroughtorture Thu 22-Feb-18 23:34:10

I would definitely wait it out and see where it goes ...
You may find out a few things you never knew about him . If you go in too soon he will convince you he's doing nothing wrong .

Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:35:09

Only been together 8 months...

SandAndSea Thu 22-Feb-18 23:36:53

Are you living together / pregnant ? If no, I would end it asap. Don't waste your time.

TwoEEs Thu 22-Feb-18 23:37:58

I’d wait until there’s something he can’t deny then lose your shit and kick him out.

Hope you are okay

RoseGoldRosie Thu 22-Feb-18 23:39:16

Surely he must have guessed from that comment?

Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:40:13

Nope, not living together & not pregnant either....

Absolute bastard, hello I am right here!!

He's just asked me if I am horny!!
I am actually laughing as I type this, it's unbelievable.

I will keep my eye on it (don't wanna turn my laptop off though because his password isn't stored)

ProfessorPickles Thu 22-Feb-18 23:40:51

Unbelievable OP! Cheeky fucker, I'd be really petty and carry on with the comments grin "men are so pathetic that wave at women online" and carry on until he gets the jist then boot him out the house and give him a wave of his own (ie from the window) grin

Dez85 Thu 22-Feb-18 23:41:18

@RoseGoldRosie nope! Still chatting and still waving!

piefacedClique Thu 22-Feb-18 23:43:06

Can you drop some of the sentences he’s writing in to your conversation.... as in.... do you want a cup of tea, it’s no bother.... that’s a shit example but do you get what I mean!

GreenTulips Thu 22-Feb-18 23:43:31

Ohhh I'd enjoy the fun of watching him!

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