I am supporting a good friend whose wife is terminally ill.
Our friendship has got closer in the last months. He will come here in the day for tea and a chat and we've been at each other's places in the evenings a couple of times. I have felt good that he's been able to open up about the difficult sides of caring for his wife.
All entirely above board from my POV. I have absolutely no romantic feelings towards him. However, my friend reckons he's coming on to me, because he invited me to his place for dinner and we played scrabble. Loads of our mutual friends know we spend time together, there's nothing illicit about it.
Am I so bloody naive or is it possible to have a friendship with someone w/o there being other motives?
He did ask to come over this evening once my LO is in bed and I said I would need to go back to work. He also asked me to swim with him today (that's not weird, he is part of a big group of friends who've all done open water swimming events together, we're all sporty), and I said I can't (which is the truth).
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Really? Is he coming on to me?
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BasaForDinner · 20/02/2018 09:12
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