My husband, with whom I have a terrible relationship, and planning a divorce. Told me we have been invited to a big (distant) family 70th party overseas. I have been quiet depressed lately, and not wanted to do anything. I said I don't want to go, he flew off the handle got very angry shouted at me a lot in front of children saying who do you think you are, I'll take the kids without you, how dare you, stop acting like your divorced sister and on. I asked him to please not shout, the children were upset, he then told me I am being a shit, and he's fed up of my behaviour. I said in a quiet voice, please don't be angry, I just don't feel like going, please can't you see it would be unreasonable to force me. He continued shouting then stormed out of the house, leaving the children standing and crying because he was due to take them out. He did come back to get them after my son called him and cried on the phone.
Just looking for people's thoughts am I being unreasonable? I would never expect him or anyone to go somewhere they didn't want to.
Thanks
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Husband's outburst after I refused to go to party.
WishfulWanderer · 19/02/2018 17:36
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