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Blackkitten · 2018-02-18 11:27:32

I am in total shock. Just because I can drink bottles of wine and JD every single night, although I have now cut down to just 5 nights as a compromise, my DP of two years thinks that it changes the person that I am. The fact that I sometimes cannot remember things from the previous night is irrelevant. The fact that I sometimes get aggressive is irrelevant. I just cannot understand what I am doing wrong. He has tried to talk to me about it but I call him controlling, sometimes when I start calling him names like the big C or flipping him the bird he gets angry that's why I think he has Asperger's. I Woke up this morning to find DP has left me This is someone only a few hours declaring undying love but he is now saying that he cannot live with an aggressive alcoholic, what a shit eh? We had a lovely meal and then I got aggressive again and instead of sitting down and continuing the romantic evening ( I fucked up Valentines as well by getting pissed and aggressive) I decided to go play pool with my pot smoking son and his pot smoking friends in a pot smoke filled room. I just dont understand why he would be upset?

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