What does this all mean? I'm sure it's a hooker

[newperson123]

Hi 1st ever post so please excuse if I'm not using the correct terms!
I found out my husband messaged a prostitute 3 months ago. Said he did it when drunk and I couldn't prove otherwise, nothing else on the bill.
I have since found things that lead me to suggest he set up a fake facebook account (and therefore fake email)
Again can't prove anything. I have just looked through his bill and there are loads of calls to the same strange number (call fails when I try it). They are all one minute long and no charge against them.
When I googled I got this:

Google Voice is a voicemail service from Google that enables users to send free text messages, customize their voicemail, read voicemail text transcript, and more. Google's voicemail service, which previously required a Google Voice invite code to setup, is now available for free to all Gmail users.

I know it's dodgy and I wondered if anyone knew what it is. Thanks so much for your help in advance
(Daily mail please do not use this as he reads it and there are kids involved!!!)

[Chaosofcalm]

You don’t need proof of anything to end the relationship.

[newperson123]

I know and I will end it. He's been making me feel like I'm going mad for the last few days and says it's affecting him now! I just want to know what this is so infinally have some concrete proof

[Iwasjustabouttosaythat]

He already owned up to texting a sex worker. Being drunk is no excuse. When I get drunk I don’t try to sexually exploit women...

DM doesn’t care about anyone. If you don’t want it in there so much aunt just have the thread deleted. And LTB.

[newperson123]

I know this and I will leave. I just want to know if anyone can tell me what these calls are all about please

[category12]

Probably a way of the prostitute keeping her real number safe.

[Jammycustard]

LTB for reading the DM

[newperson123]

Ha! Fair point.
It is numerous times a day on the bill. I don't know if it's to do with her or some messaging thing. But he can't have that many wanks a day without it glowing through his jeans like ET's finger.
We run a business so are together pretty much all of the time.
I'm just relieved that I'm not going mad and I will leave. I would just really like to know what it is so I can nail him up against the wall with it.

[HirplesWithHaggis]

When you searched the weird phone number, it told you it's a google voicemail account? I honestly can't see this being a sex worker, far too much faff.

If it were one of those "we charge you a zillion quid a second" numbers, it could be phone sex worker, or maybe camgirls. But not google voicemail.

[Angelf1sh]

Well it is what it says it is - a way of sending text messages and voice messages for free. We can’t tell you who he sent them to or what they said though.

[HirplesWithHaggis]

Soooo, is the voicemail account his, and needs to be called from his phone?

[newperson123]

I don't know. I was hoping someone might have found this splashed all over their husbands account and got to the bottom of it.

[laura65988]

U keep saying u will leave but ure not as u want to prove it he's already admitted it once so what's the difference why was he speaking to her in first place he was obvs arranging for her services

[Zaphodsotherhead]

I was thinking it might be his voicemail and he's using it to pick up contact numbers or a code whereby he can get in touch with someone?

But I know nothing. I would just tell him that he broke your trust by messaging that first prostitute. I've been drunk lots of times and I've never even had the inclination to do such a thing, so it must have been on his mind, drunk or not drunk. He broke your trust, so the marriage is over.

[Wellfuckmeinbothears]

I don't know anything about the google service, sorry. But for me just drunk messaging a prostitute would be the end of the relationship. I understand you want more proof, is that for the grounds of divorce?

Really sorry you're going through this x

[BingIsALittleShit]

Sounds like he's ringing his voicemail to be honest

Mine shows up as a mobile number in my contacts. And that's why the number doesn't work when you dial it.

[kittykat798]

Hi, so essentially you've been calling the number to Google Voice which a free service for Gmail users.

When you call from your phone, you cannot get through, as it's not a registered number.

If you called from his phone you'd be directed to the portal for his number. Google voice allows loads of features with your number, being able to listen to the voicemail whilst it's being made, syncing your phone numbers to one mobile number.

So nothing to do with a sex worker.

He is most likely using it because he has two numbers, using google voice you can control which number rings through to which device. So it is a way to conceal numbers especially if having an affair.

However, it's also a very normal business thing to have.

This could be entirely innocent.

[kittykat798]

www.reddit.com/r/adultery/comments/4cq4a5/google_voice_questions/
This will help.

[SandyY2K]

How do you suddenly when drunk find a prostitutes number to message?

That's dodgy as hell and is be out.

The trust is gone.