XP has always been controlling, angry and emotionally abusive, but over the past year it became so severe that I finally took the step to leave with DD a couple of months ago.
He is now demanding to be told where we’re living saying it’s his right to know.
Under normal circumstances I would agree that a DF has a right to know where his DC live, but he has form for stalking me and invading my privacy while we were together and his temper terrifies me so I’d never feel safe or be able to relax for fear of him turning up or spying on me.
DD is 17 (18 in a couple of months) so perfectly able to decide when or if she sees her DF and make arrangements, but despite lots of promises he’s barely shown an interest since we left, until now.
He can contact her or myself easily by phone if he wants or needs to so it’s not that he’s been totally excluded from her life or anything.
This just feels like a new way of trying to control me and I don’t know what to do!
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XP demanding to know where I live
HardHearts · 22/01/2018 18:35
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