Right you've all been fab! I got abusive husband out the door last year, started divorce proceedings and feel a lot better!
I'm now going to an initial mediation meeting which may, or may not, lead to mediation as they're not sure it's applicable. Of course STBXH still goes on how I'm just saying this to be manipulative and it's all my fault, whilst still emotionally abusing the children.
Anyhow, when looking at contact arrangement, does anyone have any suggestions for how to word things? I'm starting to look at spending some time away over the summer and I know he won't swap or be flexible at all. I'd like to suggest some kind of system for this beyond being rigid. I'm wondering what's worked for you?
To be honest I'm hoping they don't say to go through with it. I still shake whenever I have to deal with him, and he's regularly breached the protective steps on the section 47. Thanks!
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FrustrationNation · 22/01/2018 08:02
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