Finally ended it for good.
A couple of weeks ago, I drunk texted my ex that I loved him. Was mortified in the cold sober light of day and blocked/deleted his number.
Imagine my shock when I received an email from him asking me if I’d blocked/deleted as he wasn’t able to reply to my message. And that he loved me too!
Well, after the initial euphoria of getting back together, we found ourselves at square one again. I.e, I want commitment, he doesn’t want to get too serious -although he is prepared to be monogamous, he doesn’t want to have a “proper” relationship with all that it involves.
So, after a huge amount of soul-searching, I decided to end it.
It’s so hard because I do love him so much. But I’ve been reading “Mr Unavailable and the fallback girl” and I don’t want to be the fallback girl any more. I want to be available for the right man.
But a part of me wonders if I’m being too hasty. We’d been seeing each other for a year and is it too soon to ask for commitment?
Have I done the right thing to end the relationship?
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I did the right thing didn’t I?
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Royalfuckup · 20/01/2018 19:37
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