...when you’re right for each other?
We’ve been together almost a year, he’s my first relationship in a very long while (ex put me off men big time!).
We generally get on well, as do our kids...we have a similar sense of humour, enjoy our time together and we have a great sex life.
Now here’s the but...
I’m concerned he’s controlling. We don’t communicate well...he shuts down and basically refuses to speak to me/leaves. We’re good whilst I keep my opinions to myself but the minute I dare to say something is when it all goes wrong. It’s silly things...but he can’t ever accept any fault. I know I’m not perfect, far from actually...but I feel like it’s his way or the highway which I hate. His ex accused him of being controlling so it’s definitely something that concerns me (although she’s another kettle of fish!)
Any thoughts? Thanks in advance
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