New to Relationships and NC'd for this. Apologies if this is a common thread.
Married six years and together fourteen. One pre school DS.
We aren't happy at home, partly because we are just so busy but mainly because we've been neglectful of each other. Just had a massive fairly inconsequential row with DH admitting that he doesn't want to carry on like this, he's walked out but I'm sure he'll be home when he's calmed down.
We have a lovely life, there's no abuse of any sort and I think we still love each other, it's just sort of got lost.
Problem is that's it's been like this for a while, pretty much since DS was born. We almost never have sex. The idea of it seems weird, it's been so long. He's put on quite a lot of weight and physically I'm not sure I'm still attracted to him at the moment.
How do we turn it round? I think we are both equally at fault. I just don't know what to do to stop this from getting to the point where the relationship is dead.
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needtogetourshittogerher · 16/12/2017 15:58
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