NC for this. My DH and I are new parents for the first time and are absolutely in love with our DD! But we are so exhausted.
Our house is (compared to its usual state) a mess all the time with clean washing climbing the stairs! I still manage to cook a decent meal every night and the chores are done but we have no time for each other.
Last night DD stayed with her MIL so we could spend some time together. We hardly spoke and when we went to bed had the most mechanical sex ever and I had to run to the bathroom straight after because I could feel my eyes filling up.
We never talk, I go out for conversation or use MN. I've tried bringing this up with him but he just says "I don't have much to say. I'm just really boring sorry it's who I am and I can't change". But that's not who he is, I've known him since we were in school and he is different now.
He makes no effort to show me he loves me and I feel like we are losing each other. Is this just the exhaustion/adapting to a new baby? Or should I be concerned?
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