When I got together with my DH his father was working away and had been for some years. MIL and he sold the family home and he went where the work was. I've always been suspicious as he hardly ever visits and when he does, it will only be for the day despite a 12hr round trip. He hasn't given anyone his address and half the time doesn't answer his mobile.
We got married in May this year and during this DH asked FIl, and he told him. He's living with another woman, have been for a few years and they have a house together. DH told him he must tell Mil . He said he was going to.
Now 7 months later it's clear he's got no intention of telling her and we have to spend Xmas eve all together playing happy families. I've asked DH countless times to tell MIL but he doesn't want to be the one to cause the upset.
It's really hard because she signs all cards and presents from the two of them as if they are still a couple. She is the 'bury your head in the sand' type.
WWYD in this situation? I hate secrets and lies and I feel so awkward.
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Neverworkwithchildrenoranimals · 14/12/2017 21:25
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