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That's it! I'm fucking off.

(15 Posts)
enoughisenoughisenoughisenough Thu 14-Dec-17 02:01:24

NC. I'm here most days.

Had enough. I'm out. Sobbing but feeling strong. Short marriage but not one I'm going to keep trying at with someone who thinks it's ok to batter me and his family think I should put up with because poor him. I'm hours away from mine and if they knew...oh my god.

I'm ashamed. I've let so many down trusting my life in the hands of another. Who has let me down. I'm better than this shit.

Had messages on FB tonight. True friends reading between the lines of my status and knowing the truth really. They are there, ready to bring me home. They've missed me and never understood why I left. So I'm going back home. Soon. Free.

Hidingtonothing Thu 14-Dec-17 02:05:14

Are you safe for tonight OP? Here for handholding and company if it helps flowers

laudanum Thu 14-Dec-17 02:14:05

What can we do to help sweetheart? <3

CheapSausagesAndSpam Thu 14-Dec-17 02:29:45

Are you in the house with him still? Have you got children OP? Are you physically hurt?

harrypotternerd Thu 14-Dec-17 02:31:22

OP are you safe? Is he there? Are there any children or pets that could be in danger?
Well done for taking that first brave step

TeeBee Thu 14-Dec-17 03:04:51

Don't you dare be ashamed. The shame is all his to feel. You walk out with your head held high. You, my dear, are the strong one. You are right, so are much too good for this shit. Get yourself out of their safely while you still have that strength.

justilou1 Thu 14-Dec-17 03:20:24

Well done! You know you have everything to be proud of if you can get yourself out of this. Surely you would much rather be happy and safe alone than married and miserable. I hope you have a safe and happy Christmas with those who really love you!!!

MotherofaSurvivor Thu 14-Dec-17 03:39:01

Please keep talking...

Have you posted about this before? X

Coyoacan Thu 14-Dec-17 04:23:52

Whao, don't ashamed, be proud! Glad you have some good friends.

enoughisenoughisenoughisenough Thu 14-Dec-17 05:37:03

Yeah posted a few times but this is it, had threads deleted because I was weak. I'm done. I'm safe. I'm sorry I've hurt so many people along the way. He's out. Been told. I'm moving on xx

IggyAce Thu 14-Dec-17 05:49:30

Stay strong and never look back, you are so much better than him.

enoughisenoughisenoughisenough Thu 14-Dec-17 05:56:12

Yes. And I've blocked him too. Sounds daft when we still live in the same house. But to me it's a statement until I can get out of here. Plans are underway though

toastyarmadillo Thu 14-Dec-17 05:59:58

Keep safe xx

sandytime Thu 14-Dec-17 06:09:16

Hope you are safe thanks

Cambionome Thu 14-Dec-17 06:47:06

Keep going and keep posting. flowers

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