Ages ago I suspected h using this website and in the search for members....escorts.....a drop down came on with a previous search for weirdly "nice and kind"
I know I haven't typed this in. so the only person who could have is h.
So for some reason I brushed it aside but the full horror hit me today so when I got home I calmly asked him what he thought it was.
I stayed calm throughout but these are some of the things he said:
So you are looking at porn
Never heard of the website
You are being naïve or manipulative
If you think I'm bullying you call a helpline
You are creating chaos
How dare you not believe me and how dare you question me
Its something the computer made up
You must have typed it
I get angry when I am not believed
On and on and now hes not speaking to me and gone to bed playing the victim. He was storming about waving his finger at me. I just kept calm.
Previous is a porn addiction that he said he has got over and hes sick of me mentioning it. Well I don't. He also was saying I don't mention anything when you have a glass of wine. Whatever that means.
Bloody hell I only asked.
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aftertheevent · 11/12/2017 21:28
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