My DH and I have been married for 23 years. I am a SAHM. My DH will not have a discussion with me if I disagree with him at all. Not about business, kids, needs, wants, etc
He has started starting at woman in shopping centers, flirting with every teller, etc l. So today I just walked away and when he came out the shop, he said "you just left me". I said "no you were flirting". It has blown up and he apparently will not be told what to do by me and will do as he pleases and the solution is that we can no longer go shopping together and that's not. No discussion, he will not engage at all. Once again, if I do t like it, I can see an attorney. I have called his bluff on this threat and said fine, go and see one. He just disengages and we do not speak for a week or two and then he pretends nothing happpened. There is obviously many more instances like this but please, I need advice as to how to be heard and how to not have my opinions/feelings/, etc ignored and made to feel invisible and not important.
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Husband stonewalling me
Beepbob · 11/12/2017 19:06
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