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‘Asked did you get your tits out’ when told OH I got praise at work

(49 Posts)
Octonautstotherescue Thu 07-Dec-17 19:13:10

Just this really...I called him out on this and he’s shouting that as it was from a manager I don’t like and have complained about the praise doesn’t count...I think he’s missed the point.

lakeg Thu 07-Dec-17 19:24:18

What

Am stunned he can talk like that.
How tasteless and competitive can someone be

chestylarue52 Thu 07-Dec-17 19:26:52

Woah.

userxx Thu 07-Dec-17 19:28:44

What a dick

AnyFucker Thu 07-Dec-17 19:30:25

Is he always so uncouth ?

DancesWithOtters Thu 07-Dec-17 19:34:39

shock

GertrudeCB Thu 07-Dec-17 19:42:54

What the actual fuck, is he 12 ?

overnightangel Thu 07-Dec-17 19:48:02

Another woman settling for being with a cunt, shock horror

YCAWS Thu 07-Dec-17 19:58:37

Tell him no but your jaw hurts as you've mastered cock gobbling. Really give him something to kick off about

WhoWants2Know Thu 07-Dec-17 20:02:35

Wow. I hope he has some superpowers or extremely redeeming features to balance out such an awful question.

Octonautstotherescue Thu 07-Dec-17 20:04:01

Just another in a long line of dickish behaviour unfortunately. He thinks he’s done nothing wrong and is moping. It’s the total lack of respect that gets me and hurts me the most.

LyannaStarktheWolfMaid Thu 07-Dec-17 20:04:46

shock Wow.

ApplesTheHare Thu 07-Dec-17 20:04:57

Wow, that's horrible. FWIW this sort of language is a real red flag for me based on some past not so nice relationships.

ColonelJackONeil Thu 07-Dec-17 20:06:12

He's a keeper OP

mineofuselessinformation Thu 07-Dec-17 20:07:09

So every time he tells you about something good at work, ask him if he got his cock out - and than add that you hope he had his magnifying glass with him.

Silverthorn Thu 07-Dec-17 20:08:49

What a catch.

ComedyBoobs Thu 07-Dec-17 20:09:10

And you are with him because?????

FluffyFerrets Thu 07-Dec-17 20:13:35

What a dick!
Well done anyway for whatever it was you were praised for OP

Octonautstotherescue Thu 07-Dec-17 20:14:10

He didn’t get a bonus this year...and apparently is upset about this.

dogfish1 Thu 07-Dec-17 20:16:20

He may simply have a sarcastic sense of humour, and made the mistake of deploying it on you. If he'd been praised by a female manager and you'd asked if she'd fancied him, would he care?

AnyFucker Thu 07-Dec-17 20:18:29

I hope you don't get your tits out for that twat

Octonautstotherescue Thu 07-Dec-17 20:27:52

It’s not something I would expect anyone to say - it’s downright disrespectful. Also smacks of the male superiority complex.

SparklyMagpie Thu 07-Dec-17 20:41:19

It is yes, so what are you going to do?

Fishface77 Thu 07-Dec-17 20:43:34

So why are you still with him?

grannytomine Thu 07-Dec-17 21:01:18

Many years ago, probably before most of you were born, my husband said a very similar thing to me. We were divorced within months, it was the final straw. If I see him now, rare as I moved away, I can't believe I ever bothered with him.

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