Just as the title says really. I don't know how to keep going. This has been the year from hell. I broke up with a man I loved because of numerous pressures from our families and him turning out to not be the man I hoped he was. I don't want to go into detail but he disrespected me hugely and had so many issues that I don't know where to start!
I fell out with my parents for 5 months. Things have now been resolved but we recently found out that mum has terminal lung cancer. Dad has been caring for her mostly as my brother and I have work pressure. Unexpectedly dad is now in hospital awaiting a triple heart operation which will hopefully be today. I have flu. I cant be with them. Mum is finding out the results of her whole body scan today and my brother will be with her. His wife and child are ill and I really feel for the pressure he is under trying to help everyone and be strong.
I was off work Mon and Tues with period related problems, I have now developed flu symptoms. In the meantime (weds) I requested compassionate leave from work in order to help my family, not knowing that I was going to be floored with flu. They responded saying that I can have 1/2 days unpaid leave. They aren't going to believe me if I say I now have flu. I feel so guilty that I cant be there for my parents and ease the pressure from my brother. I'm a single parent and cant afford unpaid leave. I'm at breaking point. I have two teenage children to care for too. Can anyone advise what I can do financially? Should I try to get signed off with stress? I am usually a trooper but I just cant stop crying. This year has absolutely broken me and I cant see a way forward. I've got nothing to look forward to.
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bambilegs · 07/12/2017 09:32
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