Hey
I really need a distraction right now. I came out of a long term relationship earlier in the year and it was tough but I managed NC after a while and although he has moved on, we are now friends and decided that it was for the best all along. However, I have been on a few dates and seemed to meet a really nice guy on Tinder (Yes, I know!) and we got on really well. We text every day and went on dates, stayed at each others etc etc. I didn't think I was pushing for a relationship as this year has been tough.
I went into hospital for a week and he still text me every day and on Saturday we made plans to spend the day together Sunday. However, on Sunday morning he text saying he wasn't ready for a relationship and it is best that we don't see each other. I was so shocked! I did not push for a relationship and it was always him making the plans and talking about meeting his family etc. It is my birthday today and even Saturday he was talking about presents etc. so now I have no plans and feel completely let down. I did send him a text to say that I am disappointed and shocked but he didn't reply. He did send a snapchat on Monday asking if I am okay but again, he didn't reply. He has deleted me off snapchat now but on no other sites.
I feel so stupid for feeling so hurt and let down, like I barely knew the guy so I am unsure why it hurts this much? I know I should block him on everything, I have deleted his number so I can't be tempted to contact him but I thought he would at least say Happy Birthday today! I know a lot of people have bigger problems but I don't really have many people to talk to about this.
Why do guys have to act like this?
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Why does this hurt? Distractions needed please
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MinnieMul · 07/12/2017 09:02
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