My DP is a teacher. There are points in the term that are overwhelmingly stressful and during these points she is so sad and anxious. This is obviously shit but it also makes our relationship shit and our home life shit.
She won’t consider changing jobs or taking time off or lightening her workload in any way and gets so angry when I suggest it.
All she wants to do is ‘get through it’ (ie get to the end of term). But the end of term is so far away and then I have to put up with a really shit home life and watching her feel terrible until the end of term. We had to ‘just get through it’ leading up to the summer term and it was just so awful for so long.
It’s like torture knowing that every evening I’ll be coming home to a house that will be sad or full of arguments.
Then I end up feeling cross that I’m having to go through this horrible time too every evening until the end of term. It’s like she’s decided that we both just have to feel shit all December and I wasn’t even allowed to be a part of the decision.
What can I do?
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PlateOfBiscuits · 06/12/2017 19:07
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