I had a terrible childhood mainly due to my mother who is an addict. I went NC with her when my DF passed away 5 years ago.
My DB moved away 2 years ago. My DSis is now planning to move away too. I left the area 20 years ago and live a considerable distance away.
Now my sister is moving away too I can't stop thinking about my mother. Due to her lifestyle, she has no friends and when my DSis moves aways she will have no one left.
She is getting old and frail and despite her lack of parenting, I pity her. I can no longer think of her as the mother who neglected me but just a lonely old woman with no one or nothing in her life.
Do I reach out and try to have a relationship with her or am I opening myself back up to hurt and pain? I don't think she would or could do anything to hurt me now but making contact again will open up old wounds.
I'm also aware that she is struggling financially and she may encourage a relationship with the hopes of getting some money from me (she has a history of this)
Feeling confused
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Tellmewhatyouknow · 05/12/2017 20:50
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