After end of long marriage and ongoing unpleasant divorce I met someone new. He’s lovely, we’ve loads in common etc. He has sole care of 2 DC (oldest DD 12). ExDW is around, sees them but they never stay at hers.
We’ve been seeing each other for 15 months, kids have known about me for about 12 (I met them about 9 mths ago). We’ve all been on holiday together (my DC, his DC, us). They like me, we get on well.
But I have never stayed over with him when his DCs have been there. I completely get about taking it slowly but feel this has been quite slow. He’s suggested me staying over to his DC but his DD doesn’t like the idea. So I don’t. She is a lovely girl but a real daddy’s girl. He won’t stand up to her and she gets whatever she wants.
We make plans to meet, but if she doesn’t fancy what her mum proposes, she stays home so my boyfriend stays and I don’t see him. He didnt join me at an important function (for me) because she changed her mind at the last minute.
My ex has my DC for NYE and so I was planning to go to his - but I’ve told him I will make other plans if I can’t stay over. A I B U?
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AIBU not stayed over at his despite dating for 15 mths
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Tygerleopard · 04/12/2017 01:30
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