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Relationship after violent marriage

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Surreal18 Sat 02-Dec-17 10:20:47

Hi, I'm new here and looking for a bit of advice so I don't make the same mistake. I'm 7 years single and have recently reconnected with an old friend of my eldest daughters Dad. He is ADHD, very caring and gentle. I have two wee ones 8 and 14 as well so I have to be very careful. My marriage was violent and controlling so I'm really unsure of myself right now. We see eachother when we can inbetween work and the kiddies approximately twice a week. Husband was on the spectrum and a hoarder. My new man did something last week that I thought was very sweet. He's right into nature and spends his out of work time up trees planting for birds ..that's his passion. Last week when he mowed the lawns he left clumps of daisies so the bees could come and pollinate. My sister who knows him also thinks it is weird but I think it shows he cares. He's pretty full on but a very loving soul

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