Don't actually care as much as you thought they would.
When I got pregnant, I was under the impression that the GPs were super excited about having a grandchild and wanted to be involved.
The reality is very different, and despite doing what I think is a lot for both sets of GPs, they barely have any relationship with DC. This is despite my DM having a wonderful relationship with my nephew. So I know its not because she doesnt actually like children.
In a lot of ways, I don't mind being a three and both me and DH love DS as much as he needs.
However, I have started having panic attacks where I think I am dying. I've figured out this is because I'm scared of DS being left with no one who really loves him if something terrible did happen. I dont know who to name in a will as legal guardian, as I dont kno anyone who would actually want to do it. All I can think is that he will be left alone in the world with no one to really love him.
Is it odd to think like this? What do you do?
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HeyDuggee24 · 30/11/2017 21:30
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