So my relationship with my mother has not always been amazing but we mostly have got on ok. There have been times in the past where she has not been there for me emotionally which has been hard and same for my siblings. She is a fairly (outwardly at least) cold and unemotional person.
Since getting pregnant 5 years ago with my DC she has seemed to distance herself from me. She can be quite sarcastic and has said some things I have found hurtful such as teasing me about a pill I was taking (vitamin) saying it must be my happy pill when I was getting treatment for depression. I feel on edge when I am around her. She doesn't see me much unless my dad Is with her - that is another issue in itself but sometimes I don't know why he has to be there for everything. She doesn't seem to want mother daughter time like ever whereas as a teenager and child we would often spend time together. I feel like our relationship is quite fake with me putting up a front and trying to be fine with her when underneath I am quite hurt.
It hurts when I see people talk about their mums being involved in their lives at playgroups etc. Does anyone understand or can share a story ? I pretend I think my mum is amazing but really she has hurt me and my sisters feelings so much - ps as you can prob guess I hate confrontation but recently I have bb trying to pull my mum up on her sniggering and hurtful comments ... progress! :S
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Anyone else felt abandoned by their own mother after baby?
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Cloud9889 · 30/11/2017 21:24
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