Hi,just after some opinions on current situation. I've been with Dh for 7 years, generally good relationship. However he recently decided to make some space cakes with friend in our kitchen while I was at work. They were in our freezer, I asked him to throw them out and he wouldn't so I have thrown them away in the bin.
Now I feel like I'm being controlling, he argues that using cannabis is just like drinking alcohol, although he knows I am against it and I feel like I don't know what to do?
Am I being controlling? He was saying I'm acting like his parent rather than partner and now I feel really confused and just wish he would respect my feelings on this. I do love him but this feels like a major problem to me.
We are mid 30's,have not got children and he has smoked at a festival years ago but other than that this is the first time he has done anything like this for years.
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Feelingfeduptonight · 29/11/2017 21:34
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