Hi. My boyfriend and I have started to plan our wedding and his Mum is doing my head in! We are having a smallish do and I don’t want a huge fuss. My mum died when I was 18 and obviously I’m missing her loads right now as id love to plan it with her. I don’t want his mum interfering and trying to replace my Mum. We bought the groom and best mans outfit this weekend (getting married abroad and in shorts) and she kicked off saying what will our dads wear as they can’t wear shorts and we should have thought about that. Firstly, I couldn’t care less if my own Dad turned up in jeans and trainers really. It’s our wedding and we will wear what we want!
She also has her own Pinterest boards with decor ideas and things I personally do not want at my wedding. She’s asked to come along to all the wedding fairs with her and I don’t want her to. I want to go to the first one with my boyfriend and after that I want to go with my bridesmaids.
I know she’s excited but it’s really getting to me as I want to have a special day that me and my boyfriend want - not his Mum.
He said he will mention it to her but he doesn’t know how to. He recommended giving her something to do to make her feel involved but I don’t know what role I could give her? I don’t want to sound spoilt but I just don’t want her interfering. They aren’t contributing anything to our wedding money wise and I just want a special day that me and my boyfriend want.
Any advice? Thank you xx
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Getting married with an interfering MIL!!
eirrah · 27/11/2017 12:16
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