I recently discovered that my husband had been cheating on me. This has absolutely floored me, I can’t function, I can’t sleep, I can’t think. The worst thing is his denial and his minimisation tactics, when I actually have written proof. He also claims that the relationship he had has ended. It hasn’t, I have just found a recent order of Viagra (not for my benefit) and that he has recently visited a very nice hotel/restaurant (without me). He still insists he’s not seeing her!! We have to live together until the house sells but he continues to play mind games with me. Does anyone have any advice on how to get through this period, without it affecting our 10 year old DD.
I’m so hurt, I don’t know why he’s doing this to me, that’s the bit that’s really painful.
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Princesscharming · 19/11/2017 18:54
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