I’ve been with the same man for two years. It was perfect to start, I was head over heels, he seemingly was too. But the cracks started to show, he would guilt me into sex. If I said I was too tired he would say he couldn’t be with someone that didn’t want him. Checks my phone, I’ve caught him doing it. Accuses me of ridiculous things. We had men fixing the house, when he was at work and he asked me what they looked like, when I replied ‘just 3 young men’ he fell out with me. Accused me of wanting them. Then last year, I found I was pregnant with my now 4 months old and it got worse. When we’re supposed to have family days he goes out, and when I question it he says I never let him do anything, which is untrue. Then the worst last year when pregnant at a Christmas party I found out he takes cocaine. Since then it got worse. He had friends round who did drugs in my kitchen, then lied, but I saw it. And the remnants were left on the side. When I was pregnant it was almost every weekend he was doing it. I know I should have run for the hills, but whenever I get close he says he will make sure I never have my daughter. He will do what it takes. That scares the living day lights out of me. I don’t know what to do, I’m a shell of myself and I can’t live like this anymore. Thank you if you’ve got this far
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