Have you ever consciously dropped a close friend? If so, how?
This probably makes me sound awful but I have a friend I realise I can’t stay close with as it’s toxic for me. They blow hot and cold depending on the status of their relationship, are lovely and a great friend for periods of time but then things turn and the can be a bit mean. I end up getting far too sucked into their dramas and find myself overinvested, and while we are together I enjoy their company when I think about it later I feel drained and sad. Things are good now but I find myself waiting for when they aren’t again.
Has anyone managed to back away before? If so is it best to tell them or do the slow fade?
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Dropping a friend- have you done this? How?
Phoenixfromashes · 16/11/2017 22:44
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