Sorry, this is long! I'm 23 and my partner is 28. We have been together for a few years and met whilst I was at University and he was a teacher in a local secondary school. He's moved from the North to be with me as I've moved back home just outside of London (he does not live with me and is rarely allowed round). I started a graduate job in a big corporate company and need to qualify for my end-position, this consists of 15 exams. My parents have always wanted me to do well but never really pushed for it, just judged if I wasn't great. I'm a straight A* student from GCSE to A Level and then a got a first class degree from a Russell Group university.My parents are working class, neither went to university and they struggled for money growing up but I never asked for anything at all. I did as I was told and have spent my life trying to make them proud. I am very polite, respectful, and will never argue with them. However, I have now been home for a year and there was a mutual agreement that I would not pay rent in an effort to save money (which I did) and only paid for petrol if they drove me anywhere such as the train station for work. Neither of them works anymore and have retired. My partner and I just bought our first house close to my parents, and it's currently about to exchange contracts 3 weeks before I write 3 professional exams within two days. If I fail an exam I get fired. I decided I would stay at home for stability at this time and move afterwards but some comments have been made that they want rent for this time and that they're not being 'taken for mugs'. I feel really upset about this because I've never asked for much in my life. I've always worked for money since 14 and put myself through university etc. My brother is 10 years older and was always in trouble from a young age so I've been the opposite.
Am I just acting hard done by? What advice do you give for this?
I'm about to take my mum out to a spa as I planned weeks ago so I do attempt to spend money on them (such as nice dinners etc) whenever I can.
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kittykat798 · 14/11/2017 18:34
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