So I started a new relationship around 18 months ago. We both have a child from a previous relationship and we both own our own properties. We both want the same things from the future, get married, buy a house together and have another child together. However, we have a difference in opinion on the order. Due to my previous partner suddenly walking out on me, commitment is extremely important so I feel I would want to be at least engaged before buying a house together and moving my son. My new partner however doesn't want to make that commitment before we've lived together. We spend most evenings already staying at one another's houses. I just wouldn't want to move my son out of his home and then need to move him back again if the commitment isn't there. What are people's thoughts? House or commitment first when children are involved?
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House or engagement first when kids are involved?
Jhthh · 14/11/2017 08:40
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