Hi all,
I cannot believe I'm posting here for advice - again.
I posted a couple of weeks ago about my FWB,
I was getting ready to end it, but for some reason didn't. I decided not to, I decided I like him and that I was going to be brave enough to tell him so. If he didn't want more I was going to accept this and walk away. I haven't found the right time to do this.
Fast forward to now, he has had a particularly difficult weekend (to explain how would be outing), and I have tried to support him, he has admitted he doesn't want to be around people. I understand this.
Yesterday I text him to see how he is, we had a short conversation and I left him to it.
Today, I text him at lunch to tell him an invoice for something he ordered has come through to my email, I asked him if where I should send it on, I got no reply. I emailed his work email to see if he was in work, nothing, so I assumed no he wasn't. After work, I text him and said I've sent it onto his work email, still no reply.
I've decided to leave him be, but I'm so tempted to text and ask him what's going on, should I? Or should I wait and see and, if he doesn't contact me tomorrow call him?
I don't believe this is a typical ghosting situation, I've been ghosted before and this is not like that. So do I do anything or leave it be as he has had this trauma?
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Notaclue12345 · 07/11/2017 18:39
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